V is for Verification

Verification - noun The process of establishing the truth, accuracy, or validity of something. 

Feeling the need to verify your problems to utter strangers and unfortunately some family and friends is something that often happens to Spoonies. We even have a little spiel prepared in our heads ready for the moment the words 'But you look so normal...' are inevitably slipped into the conversation. We'll play down how sick we feel, just how exhausted of it all we are because we don't want people to think we're winging but at the same time we'll try to educate them in a round about way that leaves them more confused about exactly what's wrong with us than they were before and totally sworn off ever asking us about it again.

It's a habit we need to stop. 

The whole thing is ridiculous. If the people feel the need to prompt this panic inducing conversation then they aren't people you need to be around, maybe the first time you could be forgiving and have a go at explaining (MINUS THE AFORE MENTIONED SPEECH) how you manage to look so average when you are secretly superhuman but you would be a better person than I. My reaction tends to be to literally bite my tongue, laugh and say something about looks being deceiving in an only slightly sarcastic manner. 

You don't need their approval or acceptance. It really is that simple, I wish I had more to say about this but I kind of don't. You just don't need it. At all.