Y is for Youth

Youth - noun The period between childhood and adult age. The qualities of vigour, freshness or immaturity as associated with being young.

Every time someone tell's me I'm too young have Fibromyalgia, the average sufferers being middle aged women, I'm reminded of Phineas and Ferb.

Basically, Phineas and Ferb are cartoon step-brothers who spend their summer holidays doing one crazy thing everyday, while there sister tries to get them 'busted' (The boys never actually break any rules or disobey their parents...seriously just watch it). Quite often adults will ask them "Aren't you a little young to...?" To which Phineas always simply replies "Yes, yes I am." Then the adult will carry on with whatever they were doing, they never argue with them or tell them to do something else, they simply accept that yes, they are young but it's still going to happen.

What a beautiful world that would be.

Like the boys, we can't change who we are just because we don't fit into society's pre-existing views of what a sick person should be and what a young person should be.

As much as it's awful and as much as it doesn't fit on a chart there are a lot of young people out there with chronic illnesses. We're missing out on a lot of what being young is supposed to be: we have to grow up quickly; learn to be responsible for ourselves; miss out on a lot of the typical activities and people tend to forget that inside we are still that person struggling with the transition of no longer being a kid but not quite being an adult. We may act older or more mature than our 'regular' peers but that's because we've had to learn to be, not because we chose to be different. I'm certainly not saying I want to go clubbing every night but the fact that it isn't an option is really well...suckish.

In effect our youth has been stolen by our health. 

I'm not saying there's anything you can do about it so don't feel bad. I'm just saying please don't forget that under the bravery mask, behind the medication timer and beneath the symptom tracker is a young person who might appreciate mindless gossip about RPatts like just like a 'regular' teenager.